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Symptoms: Friends of the Fear

Every case of phobia of staying single is a little different.

Why? Because the core of the problem – the patterns of thinking, the images, movies, sounds and dialog that are internally associated with staying single – are different in each person.

(Note that most cures offered for phobia of staying single – expecially using drugs and medications – will tackle only the symptoms, not the thinking that is the actual core of the problem).

But while the 'internal representations' as they are called are different from person to person there are a number of symptoms which are common to many anuptaphobes:

  • A feeling of uncontrollable anxiety when you think about or are exposed to staying single
  • The feeling that you must do everything possible to avoid staying single
  • The inability to function normally because of your anxiety
  • Often, the knowledge that your fears are unreasonable or exaggerated but feeling powerless to control them

Anuptaphobic symptoms can be mental, emotional and physical. The anxiety and fear can go from mild feelings of apprehension to a full-blown panic attack.

Typically, the closer you are to what you’re afraid of, the greater your fear will be. You can test the severity of your problem with this 2-minute online phobia of staying single test.

But because the fear is a physical response to patterns of thinking about staying single and not the actual staying single almost all people with phobia of staying single can create a very strong reaction just by using their mind.

> For help chaging these patterns of thinking, read this article How to Overcome Phobia of Staying Single.

Mental Symptoms

  • Obsessive Thoughts
  • Difficulty thinking about anything other than the fear
  • Really bad images and/or movies of staying single
  • Feelings of unreality or of being detached from yourself
  • Fear of losing control or going crazy
  • Fear of fainting

Emotional Symptoms:

  • Anticipatory Anxiety: Persistent worrying about upcoming events that involve staying single
  • Terror: A persistent and overwhelming fear of the same
  • Desire to Flee: An intense instinct to leave the situation (which is tough when its purely in the mind)

While not generally experienced at the same time as phobia of staying single episode, we find that overall when they think about their past, most clients have elevated levels of one or more of:

  • Anger, Sadness, Fear, Hurt & Guilt

Physical Symptoms:

  • Dizziness, shaking, palpitations.
  • Shortness of breath or smothering sensation
  • Palpitations, pounding heart, or accelerated heart rate
  • Chest pain or discomfort
  • Trembling or shaking
  • Feeling of choking
  • Sweating
  • Nausea or stomach distress
  • Feeling unsteady, dizzy, lightheaded, or faint
  • Numbness or tingling sensations
  • Hot or cold flashes

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